At Eden's Edge
Sunday, September 5, 2010
A Good Word from my son Kyle
Allow me to spark a message of encouragement into your lives. Begin the next chapter of your life clean, with a fresh self image and a crystal perception of the outside world. Own each day that your eyes open with vivacity in your steps. Flow through your morning triumphant, gazing into the unknown world with confidence of you. Respect who you have become and honor that person, keep that persons head held high and let the people you see as you walk know, "I am who I am"
Over the past 3 months I explored many experiences of my past through my mind. The circumstances that I feared, the events that I wept from, the times that I hated, the times that brought happiness, and the times that I loved. These memories flew into my head fast, but in slow motion. I kept recollecting days at home, outside, at school, with friends... Then, I would look in a mirror and notice a different person from the boy in my memories. How old I looked and how mature I had become how changed, how altered, tall, real. I realized... It wasn't that I had become someone I didn't want to be, or I had changed so much I didn't recognize myself because of all those experiences; bad, good and the ugly,. I had just gained more of myself. All those events were growing adaptations of me! I had only become more of myself! Just as you, over the years, have become more of yourself.
Don't fear and or be discouraged by who you are. You may dislike choices or events in your life, but you are still yourself and you can control the days of the future!
Tomorrow! As you look in the mirror, don't distance yourself from the person staring back. Don't criticize, analyze, or belittle that person. Embrace that person. (don't be narcissistic but) Love that person because that person is YOU!
For some, tomorrow is going to throw us down fast and hard!! SO WHAT!!!..... Keep persevering for your passion. Don't let the weights of life hold you down. Spread your wings of hope and allow God's winds to raise you to an unfathomable height.
I wish you all a beautiful beginning!
A Graduation Letter
It is early in the morning... on your day of High School Graduation... I have my coffee... sitting here thinking of all the words I would like to tell my son Kyle on this very special day. Too many words... not enough words...maybe nothing at all needs to be said because you know how much I love and care for you - where nothing at all needs to be spoken because the bond we share between Father and Son is understood without words. But... on this day of graduation... it is customary to speak something... So with all the following... as your Dad rambles on with words of encouragement... I know you will take these words to heart... I know Big Sam, your grandfather,would be very proud of you Kyle and this day of your graduation as I am... he loved you so much Kyle! Big Sam was the greatest Dad.... even though he might not have spent this amount of time to tell me the same when I graduated High School... As a father, I knew he loved and cared for me just the same as I do for you Kyle. And I am thankful, to this day, that Big Sam, MY - Dad, left a remarkable and lasting impression on my life. And I want to do the very same for you Kyle. I can't begin to tell you how proud I am of you... as I am for each of my children... yet, you being the first born,... there will always be this special place in my heart for you Kyle. I know God has His favor on your life Kyle Morgan.... and it is amazing to SEE how our God has blessed you Kyle. No doubt... for every parent... there is always this fear of seeing your children go down the wrong path...not certain what we need to do to bring them back.... yet... I know God is in control.... and I have always trusted, to the best of my ability, in the way I have encouraged you, to ultimately allow God to direct your steps. I may not have been the best father at times... in being there for you when you needed me the most with your every step,... I ask that you please forgive me during those times when I may not have been there to nudge you along the way... but, I would like to say... especially in the past year... in the times we have shared together... I feel we have become so close in our relationship... and you will never realize how much joy this has brought your father. I have come to understand... as I have watched you grow up... I may not be there all the time... and I find myself... having to tell myself... it is ok... it is ok to let Kyle spread his wings!!... for him to take flight on his own!!... I have instructed him as a father,... prepared him for life the best I know how,... and Kyle is now a young adult... man enough to set his own course. NOW I get to see him take flight on his own and FLY HIGH!!! “WOW... Watch him soar God!” Now I get to enjoy watching how he takes to the sky! That expansive sky of endless opportunity! There are no limits Kyle... fly in every direction!!... discover the whole world before you!... flap those wings Kyle Judson Morgan! I know you will go far in life! …..And, in the future,when you ever feel the need... from time to time, you can always ask your Dad to come back again, along side of you,... so WE can fly the sky together! I may not be able to keep up with you... but that is ok... I will be fine... don't ever feel like you have left your parents behind... always remember.... even when I am on the ground.... I can still look up... and see you flying high! There he is!... That's my son!!... Kyle Judson Morgan!!!... there he is!! I love you Kyle!! “That's the way to fly!!!” I am so proud of you!!!!
Ok... let me take another sip of coffee... wipe away a few genuine tears of thankfulness from my eyes... another sip of coffee... Yummy!
I spent this week trying to think of a few passages of scripture to share with you... oh my goodness... so many verses came to mind... yet I was at a loss in which verses to share. Yet... God is so Good! As I have spent time reading through the book of Job... a fascinating book... but it is such a long read... I came upon this section of scripture.... and I felt it fitting... in the moment... to pass it on to you. A little backdrop to the story line... I know you may be familiar with the story... in the midst of Job's troubles... he had 4 friends that spent time with Job around a camp fire... trying to figure out 'this thing called life' and all the things that has happened to Job. These friends tried their best to encourage Job to the best of their ability. Of course they all failed miserably! Such is human nature... trying to speak the right things to Job... and all their words seemed to fall short. I guess the best part about the story, that means a lot to me, is the fact that his friends DID take the time to try and communicate their concern.... a book of 42 chapters.... so go figure! A lot of talking went on! I am not sure if the discussion lasted all in one night or several days... but THEY were THERE for Job in person... and that counted for something. It amazes me … that today... in our culture.... with all the variety of electronic communication at our fingertips... no one knows how to take the necessary time to just sit down, in person, and talk together ...endlessly... in hopes to figure things out. Maybe that's all people had time to do back then. No TV... No Cell Phones... No Internet.... No Video Games... Nothing... Just face to face contact with people... something all of us need to get back to doing. But that is not the point I wanted to make.... In the story... one of Job's friends was a guy named Elihu... he was the youngest... probably about your age Kyle... a young adult.... he respectfully waited his turn.... because the other friends were older and seemingly more mature... NOW... After 31 chapters!... Elihu felt it was HIS turn! I am not going to break down each verse for you... but there are two significant factors of this section of scripture... First... Elihu was compelled to speak!!!.... as a young adult... he could not hold back any longer!!!... It was his turn to take flight! And boy... did he have a lot to say! - 6 long chapters worth!! Secondly... and ironically... right after Elihu spoke... It was God's turn!!! It always amazes me how often, in scripture, God's presence and power comes forth right after a child, a teenager, a young adult (like yourself) begins to speak! As Elihu concludes his conversation... Elihu mentions, at the end, in Chapter 37:5,... Elihu says: “God's voice thunders in marvelous ways; he does great things beyond our understanding...” And then, immediately right after his last sentence................. BAM! God hits the scene!! God speaks to everyone out of the Whirlwind!... I am sure Job, Elihu and the other friends were all blown away....well not literally! I mean... maybe they all could have been!!... But right there!! Right when the storm hit and God began to speak... I am sure Elihu was thinking... ummmm..... didn't I just say God would do this?!!!!!
Kyle I took the time to print the verses below... I bold the verses I thought would be a source of inspiration to you. Remember Kyle... YOU are no different than Elihu!! It is YOUR time and turn to Speak!!!! Be ready.... because once you DO.... You will be the young man that will usher in the presence of God in your midst!!! I can't wait to SEE what God will do in your future!!! BE READY!!! I love you Son!
Job 32
Elihu
1 So these three men stopped answering Job, because he was righteous in his own eyes. 2 But Elihu ..., became very angry with Job for justifying himself rather than God. 3 He was also angry with the three friends, because they had found no way to refute Job, and yet had condemned him.
4 Now Elihu had waited before speaking to Job because they were older than he. 5 But when he saw that the three men had nothing more to say, his anger was aroused.
6 So Elihu... said:
"I am young in years,
and you are old;
that is why I was fearful,
not daring to tell you what I know.
7 I thought, 'Age should speak;
advanced years should teach wisdom.'
8 But it is the spirit in a man,
the breath of the Almighty, that gives him understanding.
9 It is not only the old who are wise,
not only the aged who understand what is right.
10 "Therefore I say: Listen to me;
I too will tell you what I know.
11 I waited while you spoke,
I listened to your reasoning;
while you were searching for words,
12 I gave you my full attention.
But not one of you has proved Job wrong;
none of you has answered his arguments.
13 Do not say, 'We have found wisdom;
let God refute him, not man.'
14 But Job has not marshaled his words against me,
and I will not answer him with your arguments.
15 "They are dismayed and have no more to say;
words have failed them.
16 Must I wait, now that they are silent,
now that they stand there with no reply?
17 I too will have my say;
I too will tell what I know.
18 For I am full of words,
and the spirit within me compels me;
19 inside I am like bottled-up wine,
like new wineskins ready to burst.
20 I must speak and find relief;
I must open my lips and reply.
21 I will show partiality to no one,
nor will I flatter any man;...
Job 33
1 "But now, Job, listen to my words;
pay attention to everything I say.
2 I am about to open my mouth;
my words are on the tip of my tongue.
3 My words come from an upright heart;
my lips sincerely speak what I know.
4 The Spirit of God has made me;
the breath of the Almighty gives me life. ...
14 For God does speak—now one way, now another—
though man may not perceive it.
15 In a dream, in a vision of the night,
when deep sleep falls on men
as they slumber in their beds,
16 he may speak in their ears...
I have found a ransom for him'-
25 then his flesh is renewed like a child's;
it is restored as in the days of his youth.
26 He prays to God and finds favor with him,
he sees God's face and shouts for joy;
he is restored by God to his righteous state...
29 "God does all these things to a man—
twice, even three times-
30 to turn back his soul from the pit,
that the light of life may shine on him...
Job 34
1 Then Elihu said:
2 "Hear my words, you wise men;
listen to me, you men of learning.
3 For the ear tests words
as the tongue tastes food.
4 Let us discern for ourselves what is right;
let us learn together what is good.
21 "His eyes are on the ways of men;
he sees their every step.
Job 35
1 Then Elihu said: …
Job 36
1 Elihu continued: ...
Job 37
1 "At this my heart pounds
and leaps from its place.
2 Listen! Listen to the roar of his voice,
to the rumbling that comes from his mouth.
3 He unleashes his lightning beneath the whole heaven
and sends it to the ends of the earth.
4 After that comes the sound of his roar;
he thunders with his majestic voice.
When his voice resounds,
he holds nothing back.
5 God's voice thunders in marvelous ways;
he does great things beyond our understanding...
Job 38
The LORD Speaks
1 Then the LORD answered Job out of the storm. He said:
2 "Who is this that darkens my counsel
with words without knowledge?
3 Brace yourself like a man;
I will question you,
and you shall answer me.….
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Jesus Knew The Reason For The Season
This is a video clip I produced with my son Kristopher when he was a baby. It took over 4 hours to just film the clip between feedings, diaper changes, crying spells, and just making sure there was enough footage to work with. Amazingly, in the studio, the editing began to unfold in such a "God Moment" of inspiration! I can't began to explain how this clip just came together! It has touched the lives of many people who have watched the clip. It's our desire, as you find yourself at Eden's Edge, that you will be blessed this Holiday Season and the year to come. As you watch this video clip, let each of us be reminded of the cost it took for us to enjoy the life we live. Thank you God for your Love, Mercy, and Forgiveness - and the gift you gave us through your Son Jesus Christ!
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Anne - "Tell me about your faith."
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Sunday, November 22, 2009
Thankful For Our Churches
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THEME VERSE:
Colossians 3:15-1715Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. 16Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. 17And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
We are thankful for:
Our Time in sharing together.
Psalm 100:3-53 Know that the LORD is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture. 4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. 5 For the LORD is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.
QUESTION: When this verse talks about entering His gates with thanksgiving and His court with praise, what have been some of your most enjoyable thoughts when we come here every Sunday Morning? Let's be honest... Have there ever been other times when we just didn't want to show up for Church?!! (Laugh) What have been some of the most memorable times that we have shared together with the people at Church? Do we feel these times shared together are truly an expression of entering His gates with thanksgiving and that we are most certainly entering His courts with praise?
Our Hands in helping others.
2 Corinthians 9:11, 1211You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God. 12This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of God's people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God.
QUESTION: This has to be one of my favorite verses! We see so many people give of their Time,Talent, and Treasure in the life of ministry. And why do God's people give? Why do you and I give Sunday after Sunday? Because our giving is an overflowing expression of our thanks to God - mainly for what He has done in our lives through His Son Jesus! A church that gives in ministry is a church filled with gratitude. You can tell how thankful a ministry has become in their relationship with Jesus Christ by HOW they give! Tell us about a few occasions when the people your church gave beyond their means in ministry.
Our Anticipation in believing the vision.
Daniel 2:22-2422 He reveals deep and hidden things; he knows what lies in darkness, and light dwells with him. 23 I thank and praise you, O God... You have given me wisdom and power, you have made known to me what we asked of you, you have made known to us the dream..."
QUESTION: Wow! What an awesome verse! You know, during Daniel's time, Daniel was the only one in the region who could interpret vision! What an undaunting task! Everyone was waiting on Daniel... think of that kind of pressure! You and I know how challenging it is to cast a clear, compelling, and concise vision before a congregation. At the same time, it's not all about us and what we SEE. We want vision to be shared among the people who attend our churches. We also desire our congregations to have a sense of ownership related to anticipating and believing the vision. If we could elaborate for a moment, as we prayerfully lead our churches - what are the 2-3 non-negotiables that we grapple with in relation to the vision we know God is directing our ministry towards. What is the vision for the people of our churches? How do we see ministry unfold in the next 2-3 years?
Our Name in remembering the past.
Psalm 42:1-4
As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. 2 My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God? 3 My tears have been my food day and night, while men say to me all day long, "Where is your God?"4 These things I remember as I pour out my soul: how I used to go with the multitude, leading the procession to the house of God, with shouts of joy and thanksgiving among the festive throng.
QUESTION:When I read this verse I think back to the moments where ministy brought me a great source of joy... Oh how I am thankful for being able to remember the past. In the opening video clip, we may have noticed the hand on door knobs opening and closing doors... We have established our churches as a viable ministry in the community. God has blessed tremendously - no doubt we are thankful for our name in remembering the past in how our churches have gotten started and recognizing the growth in where we are today. Some of us may still want to live in the day of "ministry past" but you and I know time doesn't stand still. We have to move forward. God rarely repeats the exact same miracle or spiritual movement in the life of a ministry twice. God desires to move afresh in a ministry - to prepare us for something new. Sometimes for new ministry doors to open, we have to close other doors. In remembering our name in the past... what have been a couple of pivotal doors that were opened that have brought us to where we are today? Are there any doors that have been stayed - kept opened way too long that we need to close? How would you encourage this church and other churches to open new doors in ministry?
Our Kindness in praying for others.
Philippians 4:5
5Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. 6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
QUESTION: This is another powerful verse! How many times have we all been anxious for something to happen in ministry? When there is this assurance that our Lord is near to us, this realization has a calming effect. We can operate out of gentleness. Keeping this truth in mind, how can we better our prayers related to the ministry of our churches? If I were to ask you how you and the people of your church have been praying this past year for the ministry direction of this church - be real with us this today - how would you summarize this and define this in a few words or statements?
Our Faithfulness in knowing Jesus.
Ephesians 1:15-17
15For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, 16I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. 17I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.
Our Understanding in giving.
1 Corinthians 15:57, 5857...thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.58Therefore,... stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.
Question: We all know how emotionally draining it can be to ask a congregation to give of their Time, Talent, and Treasure - especially in our economic conditions today. Example: What was it like to encourage a congregation to give during a past building campaign? What were some of the struggles? What were some of the joys? Did we ever feel like some of the churches' efforts were done in vain? Once a goal in giving has been met, how do we celebrate and get geared up in our giving towards a new ministry venture?
Our Love in reaching the community.
Corinthians 4:14, 1514...because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence. 15All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Pulling Yourself Together When Everything Is Pulling You Apart
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I have to leave.
Whatever time I have left
is spent in death's waiting room.
No more glimpses of God
in the land of the living,
No more meetings with my neighbors,
no more rubbing shoulders with friends.
This body I inhabit is taken down
and packed away like a camper's tent.
Like a weaver, I've rolled up the carpet of my life
as God cuts me free of the loom
And at day's end sweeps up the scraps and pieces.
I cry for help until morning.
Like a lion, God pummels and pounds me,
relentlessly finishing me off.
I squawk like a doomed hen,
moan like a dove.
My eyes ache from looking up for help:
"Master, I'm in trouble! Get me out of this!"
But what's the use? God himself gave me the word.
He's done it to me.
I can't sleep—
I'm that upset, that troubled. 16-19 O Master, these are the conditions in which people live,
and yes, in these very conditions my spirit is still alive—
fully recovered with a fresh infusion of life!
It seems it was good for me
to go through all those troubles.
Throughout them all you held tight to my lifeline.
You never let me tumble over the edge into nothing.
But my sins you let go of,
threw them over your shoulder—good riddance!
The dead don't thank you,
and choirs don't sing praises from the morgue.
Those buried six feet under
don't witness to your faithful ways.
It's the living—live men, live women—who thank you,
just as I'm doing right now.
Parents give their children
full reports on your faithful ways.
As fiddles and mandolins strike up the tunes,
We'll sing, oh we'll sing, sing,
for the rest of our lives in the Sanctuary of God...
I pray the verses above are encouraging to your situation. Hezekiah knew first hand what it was like to see his leadership position start slipping away. In this instance, it was due to Hezekiah's health - I am also certain Hezekiah's pride in the way he showcased his wealth and leadership expertise also begin to crush his ego when opportunity began to slip through his fingers.
Yet, God allowed Hezekiah to suffer - in order to make Hezekiah realize he is only human, like the rest of us, and to ultimately bring him back to a full trust and reliance upon His faith in God. Hezekiah sought it with tears... and God honored his request and gave Hezekiah additional life and years in serving his God.
If God can do this with Hezekiah, God can do this with us.
"Holding on while Being Pulled... Let it GO!"
Turbulent waters has caused us to be frightened of the current; and, we have found ourselves clinging onto branches sticking out of the water... or our feet caught and hung by debris in the water... and there we are... "Pinned" by some obstruction hoping to find some personal and/or ministry resolve to get us to the "safer" side of the shoreline... we see the bend ahead in the river; but, we are petrified by the unforeseen of what may be on the other side of the twist and turns in the current. We hear the roar of the water... and we assume the worst... "so we stay put"... hoping something will give. Perhaps... inching our way to the side of the shoreline... but why? If we do that... it's the end of the trip. We will never know what is downstream. We have come this far - so we can't give up now. Don't cut the trip short! So, we have to do something... if we stay put.. we sit there constantly reminded of the rushing current - it does not stop... we feel the physical toll our bodies are taking... we feel our aching muscles - the cuts and bruises of what we have endured thus far. This experience has caused us to become numb to our calling and uncertain of our purpose. But we can't stay put! We have to let go... go with the flow... embrace the current and SEE what is around the bend - it's all apart of the journey!
The best way to Pull ourselves together when everything is pulling us a part - is to just let go! It's letting go of the "tug-of-war" rope... and watch the opposition fall to the ground... sure the other side may have won the competiton (in their own minds)... but look who is still standing?
IT's not about us! Like I have shared... if we can't let it go... ministry has more of a hold on us than we do of it. Can we step away for a moment... lay the rope down... release ourselves from whatever obstruction there is in the water... to just "go with the flow?" and let's trust and believe the best is yet to come on the other side of the river bend?
Notice how it was initially Isaiah who spoke on Hezekiah's behalf. Noticed how Hezekiah FACED the WALL... reminding him about climb upward and what it is going to take to get to a better place. Notice how Hezekiah wrote a note of thanksgiving AFTER he was restored, AFTER he recovered, AFTER he had gotten to a better place on the other side of the river bend! I want to encourage you to not speak about positive change until YOU are certain it is ready to be shared! Just keep these moments to yourself for right now... and God will give you the right season to share openly about your growth and blessings you have learned once you get to the other side of this!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
State of the Church - "Looking Through Stained Glass Windows"
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We all know, rather it is people or programs,... there is dead wood in the water that is holding the church back. THIS is the greatest injustice a ministry can experience. Somewhere along the line... we have to call the tough shots... and cut to the quick, count our losses, regain our direction and force forward, it's not a matter of being indignant towards others or being manipulative or playing hardball... Churches fail in moving forward because we become enablers of dysfunction by bad Leadership decisions and problematic Church Programming. We can not continue to pacify crying congregations by plugging ministry holes while the ship is still taking on water. Something has to give. I'd rather grab a few 'working' planks and start surfing the high seas... rather than going down with worrisome folks in a sinking ship.